Are all guys like this? :S re phrasing the previous one for those who dont understand me. :)?

usually u find that if a guy is already friends with a girl that he likes he is scared that if anything went further n it went wrong u wud lose ur friendship. Some guys are nervous around girls they like due to bein scared of rejection by the girl. my advice wud b to keep the friendship goin with james but makesure he understands thats all there is but b nice. i wud c how things go with joe maybe flirt a bit but let him make the move if he backs off then leave him 2 it. usually when u act like u dnt want them they want u mre gud luck x