I am in need of a way to meet other young women for support. Does anyone know of any good organizations?

I am a woman of 25. I have just graduated college and am living in an apartment I can barely afford (now that Ive lost my job) in the Baltimore area. I am codependent and, because I have moved here to be with my boyfriend, I don't have many of my own friends. None of them are women. I am on the very brink of losing the man I love because I dont have any other means of feeling good about myself than to bug him for compliments. If I havent already lost him, he moved out today... A good, strong girlfriend would really do the trick. A club of any interest would also help. I dont have alot of money but I am willing to pay a small fee. Does anyone know of any organizations that can help with my self esteem/codependency issues? Or where I can meet other young women in hopes of making a friend? Even a website with an active forum would help for the immediate pain of him leaving.